The tip of an iceberg? Adult children’s experiences with parental suicidal behaviour in childhood

Purpose This study examined how children exposed to parental suicidal behaviour experienced their parents’ suicide attempts, their relationship with their parents, and family life from childhood to adult life. Methods This qualitative, exploratory study conducted semi-structured interviews with 11 p...

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Main Authors: Geir Tarje Bruaset, Jennifer Drummond Johansen, Tine K. Grimholt
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Language:English
Published: Taylor & Francis Group 2025-12-01
Series:International Journal of Qualitative Studies on Health & Well-Being
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Online Access:http://dx.doi.org/10.1080/17482631.2025.2459299
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description Purpose This study examined how children exposed to parental suicidal behaviour experienced their parents’ suicide attempts, their relationship with their parents, and family life from childhood to adult life. Methods This qualitative, exploratory study conducted semi-structured interviews with 11 participants recruited from next-of-kin organizations and social media. Open-ended interviews addressed childhood experiences, perceived difficulties, and helpful aspects. Interviews lasted approximately 70 minutes and were recorded and transcribed. Thematic analysis was utilized to analyse the data. Results We identified two main themes: an unstable, unpredictable upbringing environment and a lifelong responsibility. Participants did not regard their parent’s suicide attempt as the most traumatic event of their childhood. Instead, they identified parental instability due to serious mental illness and/or substance abuse as the most stressful factor. This instability imposed significant emotional and practical responsibilities on the children, forcing them to sacrifice their own development and sense of security. Responsibility was characterized as a life lasting burden. Conclusions Adult children of parents with suicidal behaviour reported that their parent’s mental illness was the most burdensome aspect of their upbringing, leading to an unstable home with significant responsibilities. These individuals require professional follow-up and should be offered individual counselling sessions as a clinical intervention.
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spelling doaj-art-c6fdcf5884764217b6f0f846b94a7e8b2025-02-05T12:46:15ZengTaylor & Francis GroupInternational Journal of Qualitative Studies on Health & Well-Being1748-26231748-26312025-12-0120110.1080/17482631.2025.24592992459299The tip of an iceberg? Adult children’s experiences with parental suicidal behaviour in childhoodGeir Tarje Bruaset0Jennifer Drummond Johansen1Tine K. Grimholt2VID Specialized UniversityOslomet UniversityVid Specialized UniversityPurpose This study examined how children exposed to parental suicidal behaviour experienced their parents’ suicide attempts, their relationship with their parents, and family life from childhood to adult life. Methods This qualitative, exploratory study conducted semi-structured interviews with 11 participants recruited from next-of-kin organizations and social media. Open-ended interviews addressed childhood experiences, perceived difficulties, and helpful aspects. Interviews lasted approximately 70 minutes and were recorded and transcribed. Thematic analysis was utilized to analyse the data. Results We identified two main themes: an unstable, unpredictable upbringing environment and a lifelong responsibility. Participants did not regard their parent’s suicide attempt as the most traumatic event of their childhood. Instead, they identified parental instability due to serious mental illness and/or substance abuse as the most stressful factor. This instability imposed significant emotional and practical responsibilities on the children, forcing them to sacrifice their own development and sense of security. Responsibility was characterized as a life lasting burden. Conclusions Adult children of parents with suicidal behaviour reported that their parent’s mental illness was the most burdensome aspect of their upbringing, leading to an unstable home with significant responsibilities. These individuals require professional follow-up and should be offered individual counselling sessions as a clinical intervention.http://dx.doi.org/10.1080/17482631.2025.2459299parental suicidal behaviournext of kinmental illnesschildrenfamily
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The tip of an iceberg? Adult children’s experiences with parental suicidal behaviour in childhood
International Journal of Qualitative Studies on Health & Well-Being
parental suicidal behaviour
next of kin
mental illness
children
family
title The tip of an iceberg? Adult children’s experiences with parental suicidal behaviour in childhood
title_full The tip of an iceberg? Adult children’s experiences with parental suicidal behaviour in childhood
title_fullStr The tip of an iceberg? Adult children’s experiences with parental suicidal behaviour in childhood
title_full_unstemmed The tip of an iceberg? Adult children’s experiences with parental suicidal behaviour in childhood
title_short The tip of an iceberg? Adult children’s experiences with parental suicidal behaviour in childhood
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topic parental suicidal behaviour
next of kin
mental illness
children
family
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