“I lock myself in my room and cry in frustration”: an analysis of adolescent behaviors of child-to-parent violence

Child-to-parent violence (CPV) encompasses behaviors such as hitting, insulting, or threatening parents. Over the past decade, the number of CPV cases has increased significantly. While previous research has largely focused on classifying CPV behaviors and examining their causes, there is limited in...

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Main Authors: Shirley Arias-Rivera, Barbara Lorence, Jesus Maya
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Published: Frontiers Media S.A. 2025-02-01
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description Child-to-parent violence (CPV) encompasses behaviors such as hitting, insulting, or threatening parents. Over the past decade, the number of CPV cases has increased significantly. While previous research has largely focused on classifying CPV behaviors and examining their causes, there is limited investigation into what happens immediately after CPV episodes. This study aims to describe the behaviors of adolescents following violent actions in both mild and severe cases of CPV. A randomized sample of 1,067 Spanish adolescents, participating in a national CPV project, was studied using the Child-to-Parent Aggression Questionnaire. Among them, 410 adolescents (41.91% boys and 57.84% girls) reported engaging in some form of CPV behavior in the past year, and 47 adolescents met the criteria for severe and repeated CPV. Specifically, 26 adolescents exhibited psychological and 27 exhibited physical CPV toward their mother, while 21 adolescents exhibited psychological and 15 physical CPV toward their father. Adolescents were asked, “What do you do after?” Following thematic analysis, adolescents’ responses were categorized into 6 themes and 17 sub-themes in mild cases. A possible sequence in adolescents’ responses was identified, divided into three phases. In the first phase, adolescents felt bad after their violent behavior, expressed remorse, reflected on it, and sought a safe place. In the second phase, apologizing to parents was the most common response, reported by 70.52% of adolescents. Finally, in the third phase, in addition to apologizing, adolescents attempted to talk with their parents, gave them a hug, or committed to not repeating the behavior. In contrast, 8% of adolescents normalized their behavior, joked about it, or justified their actions. In severe cases, most subthemes were consistent with those observed in mild CPV cases. However, in contrast to milder cases, severe cases showed a lower percentage of adolescents who felt bad or apologized and a higher proportion who normalized, avoided talking about, or justified their violent actions (23.4% of adolescents with severe CPV). This study highlights practical implications for interventions, such as the importance of helping them express their emotions, recognize the harm caused, identify safe spaces, people, or activities, and support them in the process of apologizing.
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spelling doaj-art-3e07f3d0d42c40dd863067976da550282025-02-03T06:33:30ZengFrontiers Media S.A.Frontiers in Psychiatry1664-06402025-02-011610.3389/fpsyt.2025.15244131524413“I lock myself in my room and cry in frustration”: an analysis of adolescent behaviors of child-to-parent violenceShirley Arias-Rivera0Barbara Lorence1Barbara Lorence2Jesus Maya3Departamento de Psicología, Universidad Loyola Andalucía, Seville, SpainDepartamento de Psicología Evolutiva y de la Educación, Sevilla University, Seville, SpainResearch Group HUM604 ‘Lifestyle Development in the Life Cycle and Health Promotion’, University of Huelva, Huelva, SpainDepartamento de Psicología, Universidad Loyola Andalucía, Seville, SpainChild-to-parent violence (CPV) encompasses behaviors such as hitting, insulting, or threatening parents. Over the past decade, the number of CPV cases has increased significantly. While previous research has largely focused on classifying CPV behaviors and examining their causes, there is limited investigation into what happens immediately after CPV episodes. This study aims to describe the behaviors of adolescents following violent actions in both mild and severe cases of CPV. A randomized sample of 1,067 Spanish adolescents, participating in a national CPV project, was studied using the Child-to-Parent Aggression Questionnaire. Among them, 410 adolescents (41.91% boys and 57.84% girls) reported engaging in some form of CPV behavior in the past year, and 47 adolescents met the criteria for severe and repeated CPV. Specifically, 26 adolescents exhibited psychological and 27 exhibited physical CPV toward their mother, while 21 adolescents exhibited psychological and 15 physical CPV toward their father. Adolescents were asked, “What do you do after?” Following thematic analysis, adolescents’ responses were categorized into 6 themes and 17 sub-themes in mild cases. A possible sequence in adolescents’ responses was identified, divided into three phases. In the first phase, adolescents felt bad after their violent behavior, expressed remorse, reflected on it, and sought a safe place. In the second phase, apologizing to parents was the most common response, reported by 70.52% of adolescents. Finally, in the third phase, in addition to apologizing, adolescents attempted to talk with their parents, gave them a hug, or committed to not repeating the behavior. In contrast, 8% of adolescents normalized their behavior, joked about it, or justified their actions. In severe cases, most subthemes were consistent with those observed in mild CPV cases. However, in contrast to milder cases, severe cases showed a lower percentage of adolescents who felt bad or apologized and a higher proportion who normalized, avoided talking about, or justified their violent actions (23.4% of adolescents with severe CPV). This study highlights practical implications for interventions, such as the importance of helping them express their emotions, recognize the harm caused, identify safe spaces, people, or activities, and support them in the process of apologizing.https://www.frontiersin.org/articles/10.3389/fpsyt.2025.1524413/fullchild-to parent violenceadolescent behavioremotional responsesystematic analysisintervention strategies
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Frontiers in Psychiatry
child-to parent violence
adolescent behavior
emotional response
systematic analysis
intervention strategies
title “I lock myself in my room and cry in frustration”: an analysis of adolescent behaviors of child-to-parent violence
title_full “I lock myself in my room and cry in frustration”: an analysis of adolescent behaviors of child-to-parent violence
title_fullStr “I lock myself in my room and cry in frustration”: an analysis of adolescent behaviors of child-to-parent violence
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title_short “I lock myself in my room and cry in frustration”: an analysis of adolescent behaviors of child-to-parent violence
title_sort i lock myself in my room and cry in frustration an analysis of adolescent behaviors of child to parent violence
topic child-to parent violence
adolescent behavior
emotional response
systematic analysis
intervention strategies
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